I'm not going to say I'm the prettiest girl ever, I have my days where I feel like complete crap. But other days I do very pretty. I don't like to fish for complimants but I enjoy getting them a lot, its always make me feel better about myself. One compliment I don't like to get, especially from a guy, is to be called "sexy". It makes me feel like a whore. Like if I'm sitting there in jeans and a tee shirt, how in the world is that "sexy"? It's just simple and plan. Like I'd understand if i was like wearing only a cute bra and some panties in front of a guy, that he call me sexy. Because to me that was sexy is all about, sex. It has sex right there in it, S E X Y. Haha, anyways, in my opinion I would much rather be called beautiful, pretty, or even cute by a guy, if they're being serious. If you call me sexy when I'm just standing there in jeans and a hoodie I would know your lieing because I wouldn't look sexy at all at that moment. If you really wanted to make me feel good about myself and be truthful about it why wouldn't you just say i look pretty? I don't think it's that complacated. I always feel ackward after being called sexy, becuase then I feel like all you want is to get in my pants or for me to send you pictures of myself. If I was called pretty or something like that, it wouldn't be ackward, unless it was from some weird nerdy kid with glasses and hair longer than mine. (jk) It would make me feel like you like me for something other then sex or your own personal porn. I'm not saying I'm self-consceince or that I need someone to tell me I look pretty. And I know that you like to be complimented about what your wearing every once in a while, atleast for the girls I do. It not only makes you feel better but it makes you feel like that 15 mintue shower or that 20 mintues on your hair that morning was really worth your effort. I know boys are like, "whatever man, your just fishing for a compliment" but we're really not. It's just that we soend so much time to look pretty and to make sure our hair is just right, and for what? Do you really think we do it for each other? No, we do it for the guys. Because I know that if it was an all girl world, none of us would wear makeup or even a bra. Atleast I know I wouldn't. Haha.
Well, that's my veiw on this subject. I hope I made you think a little bit.
-Elizabeth Burwell
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